Focus Quote: Staying Connected

Staying Connected

Striving toward a life of Unceasing Prayer


Focus Quote

“We are not commanded to work, keep vigil or fast without ceasing, but we are commanded to pray without ceasing. For prayer purifies and strengthens the mind which was created to pray and to fight the demons for the protection of all the powers of the soul.”

Evagrius Ponticus 

St Paul calls us to ‘unceasing prayer’. How are we to understand how to do this? Are we always to have a word to God on our lips and minds or is this impossible and too hard-line a task? Could, perhaps, prayer take multiple forms? 

There are two traditions for understanding this teaching (along with Romans 12:12 “be constant in prayer”). The first is mentioned by Origen (c.184-253 AD): 

“Now, since the performance of actions enjoined by virtue or by the commandments is also a constituent part of prayer, he prays without ceasing who combines prayer with right actions, and becoming actions with prayer. For the saying “pray without ceasing” can only be accepted by us as a possibility if we may speak of the whole life of a saint as one great continuous prayer.” 

Importantly, he also writes “Of such prayer what is usually termed ‘prayer’ is indeed a part.” This is to say, that although my life has become a prayer, this doesn’t exonerate me from performing ‘actual prayer.’ In fact, one could perform ‘actual prayer’ always. This is common among monastics (though we are all called to an ascetic life and so this doesn’t exclude lay persons from participating). This is commonly accomplished by constant recitation of a short prayer, the most famous of which is called the Jesus Prayer: “Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.” Another, made common by St John Cassian (360-435 AD), is “Come to my help, O God; Lord, hurry to my rescue.”  Both are good interpretations. Perhaps we who are weak should strive to live out the latter interpretation via the former. 

Readings: Staying Connected

Staying Connected

Striving toward a life of Unceasing Prayer


New Testament Passage

12And we urge you, brethren, to recognize those who labour among you, and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, 13and to esteem them very highly in love for their work’s sake. Be at peace among yourselves. 14Now we exhort you, brethren, warn those who are unruly, comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all. 15See that no one renders evil for evil to anyone, but always pursue what is good both for yourselves and for all. 16Rejoice always, 17pray without ceasing, 18in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. 19Do not quench the Spirit. 20Do not despise prophecies. 21Test all things; hold fast what is good. 22Abstain from every form of evil.  – 1 Thessalonians 5:12-22 

Discussion Questions

  1. We see the exhortation “Pray without ceasing” is couched in a number of other moral imperatives such as “comfort the faint-hearted” and “in everything give thanks.” What is the relationship between my prayer life and the rest of my moral life as a Christian? 
  2. St Paul calls us to ‘unceasing prayer’. How are we to understand how to do this? Are we always to have a word to God on our lips and minds or is this impossible and too hard-line a task? Could, perhaps, prayer take multiple forms? 

Old Testament Passage

6So these governors and satraps thronged before the king, and said thus to him: “King Darius, live forever! 7 All the governors of the kingdom, the administrators and satraps, the counsellors and advisors, have consulted together to establish a royal statute and to make a firm decree, that whoever petitions any god or man for thirty days, except you, O king, shall be cast into the den of lions. 8 Now, O king, establish the decree and sign the writing, so that it cannot be changed, according to the law of the Medes and Persians, which does not alter.” 9 Therefore King Darius signed the written decree. 10 Now when Daniel knew that the writing was signed, he went home. And in his upper room, with his windows open toward Jerusalem, he knelt down on his knees three times that day, and prayed and gave thanks before his God, as was his custom since early days. – Daniel 6:6-10

Discussion Questions

  1. Having heard that he would be slain for prayer to God, the first thing Daniel does is looks to that age-old cure for all woes: prayer to God (what a beautiful paradox!). How can prayer and reliance upon God aid us in times of struggle? How can we be firm in our prayer though the world thinks it folly? 
  2. Above we discussed unceasing prayer, but the author of Daniel writes that Daniel “Knelt down on his knees three times that day, and prayed and gave thanks before his God, as was his custom since early days.” Clearly Daniel had a prayer rule to organise his prayer life. What makes an effective prayer rule? How can I implement it effectively? 

WHAT’S YOUR WAITING STYLE?

Originally seen on Fr Anthony’s blog (11 March. 2020)


“The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him.  It is good that one should hope and wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” (Lamentations 3:25-26)

I HATE WAITING!  I’m not alone am I?  We all hate waiting don’t we?  Raise your hand if you’ve done any of these in the past week…

  • Honked at the car in front of you the second that the light turns green if they don’t start moving immediately?
  • Put a plate of food in the microwave for 30 seconds and then stopped it after 27 ½ seconds – unable to wait any longer?
  • Pushed the elevator button 15 times while waiting for it come – somehow thinking that if you push it more, it’ll come faster (makes perfect sense in our heads doesn’t it?)

WE HATE WAITING!  We hate waiting at the grocery store.  We hate waiting in traffic.  And we hate waiting on God.

It seems like such a waste of time, doesn’t it?  Life would be soooooo much better if we didn’t have to wait.  If we had WHAT we wanted WHEN we wanted it.  Right here…right now… no waiting.  Give it to me NOW NOW NOW!!!

If that’s how you feel sometimes, take comfort in knowing that you are not alone.  Impatience is the plague of our generation – it’s the fruit of living in a fast food, instant coffee, on demand world.  We all struggle with it.  And we see its ugly fruit all over our lives – in the form of worry, anxiety, complaining, negativity, fear, and a general lack of peace.

Unfortunately for us, God likes waiting.  It’s one of His favorite tools to use in making us better people and more like Him. 

“See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, waiting patiently for it until it receives the early and latter rain. You also be patient.”  (James 5:7)

Like a farmer, God is trying to produce a harvest in our lives.  He’s trying to give His children good things and produce in them fruits worthy of a child of the King.  And as a farmer, He produces those fruits by planting seeds – not full grown trees.  And seeds take time to produce fruit.

In other words, a farmer knows that FRUIT REQUIRES WAITING.  No waiting = no fruit.  It’s that simple.

Examine your own life.  Surely there isn’t a soul out there today who isn’t waiting on God for something?  An answer to a prayer…a solution to a problem…a light to shine in the midst of a dark dark situation.  We’re all waiting for something.

The question isn’t WHAT you’re waiting for, but HOW you’re waiting for it?

Are you waiting patiently – as a farmer knowing that it will take time to produce fruit?

Or are you waiting impatiently – like the maniac pushing the elevator button 15 times thinking that the more he pushes it, the more the little elevator elves inside will realize that he’s really in a hurry and bring the elevator faster?

The prophet Jeremiah says that our waiting on God should be characterized by hope and quietness:

“The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him.  It is good that one should hope and wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” (Lamentations 3:25-26)

How are you waiting?  Patiently or impatiently?  Quietly or complainingly?  With hope or with despair?  It might just be that HOW you’re waiting will impact HOW LONG you’re waiting as well.

(read that sentence again and let that one sink in – it’s pretty deep)

I just read a nice quote the other day that said that “even when our problems are over our head, they’re still under His feet.”  No doubt about that.  That’s the spirit that should characterize our waiting.

How would you characterize your “waiting” style?  How do you think God feels when He sees His child (YOU) waiting in that way?


(c) Fr Anthony Messeh (2020). What’s Your Waiting Style? by Anonymous. Available at http://www.franthony.com/blog/whats-your-waiting-style.

GOD’S SIGN LANGUAGE

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December 1, 2017

Originally seen on Fr Anthony’s blog (1 December. 2017)

This is a guest post from Peri Koussa – a fifth year PharmD student at MCPHS University in Boston.  Aside from being a future health care professional, Peri is also – in her own words – “a closet poet and strong believer in the power of words.”  You can see more of Peri’s work by checking her out on SoundCloud.  And if you too are interested in guest posting on my blog, please visit my Guest Post guidelines for more info.


How often do you ask God for “a sign”?  Are you as guilty of it as I am?  I say things like: “If God wills it”, or “God, I’m putting this in Your hands”, or just simply “Lord, give me a sign.”

I like to include God in every little decision that I make, hence the constant fishing for reassurance by asking for a sign. But it’s listening to His answer that always drives me nuts. I can never tell if/when He’s responding. My struggle is always — how do I discern if this is a spiritual sign or just a plain old sign that I’m trying to see spiritually?

Most of us are probably caught asking for a sign when choosing a life partner. I think it’s easily the biggest commitment you could make, (second to having a child), so we find divine intervention to be most crucial.

But you know what? It’s not always black and white. Sometimes who you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with might be as clear as night and day, but other times, it simply isn’t.

God’s not cupid. He doesn’t use a bow and arrow to match you with the Adam or Eve of your dreams. God uses the Holy Spirit. I think most people misinterpret, “listen to your heart,” because your heart isn’t your feelings, it’s the Holy Spirit that lives within you. 

Thus we need to stop looking with our EYES and start listening with our HEARTS.

And, yes, there are other points in life where we ask God for a sign. Points that make us wish our life paths were more clear. But, as I sit here and commiserate, I’m reminded of Jonah and Abraham, whose stories reassure me that God’s plan will always prevail no matter the sign.

Jonah didn’t have to ask for a sign, God clearly said to him: “Arise, go to Nineveh, that great city, and preach to it the message that I tell you” (Jonah 3:2). 

But despite how clear God was, Jonah ignored Him.  God had a plan for him, though, and no matter how hard Jonah would’ve tried, God was going to make sure that His plan for him was the one that prevailed. And it did.

God sent Abraham the sign that he was longing for in the last second; “Then he reached out his hand and took the knife to slay his son. But the angel of the Lord called out to him from heaven, “Abraham! Abraham!…Do not lay a hand on the boy” (Genesis 22:10-12). 

Talk about perfect timing…

Now you might be thinking to yourself, “I wish God’s signs were that clear for me!”

Maybe they are.  God’s sign language is the Holy Spirit that resides within you, and there’s nothing louder than that voice in your head. So listen to Him as He guides you over every speed bump. 

It’s human nature to become fixated on our paths and obsess over interpreting signs. But if we listen to our hearts and hear what God has to say, it’ll become easier and easier for us to understand what these signs mean.

After all, as Solomon once said: “A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps” (Proverbs 16:9)


(c) Fr Anthony Messeh (2018). God’s Sign Language by Peri Moussa. Available at http://www.franthony.com/blog/gods-sign-language.

No Room at the Inn

No Room at the Inn

By Marc Eskander


It was bittersweet attending Christmas in Church watching people be turned away at the gates due to exceeding the limit of people in the church.

Yet one very poignant image kept coming to mind. The young Saint Mary and her betrothed, Joseph, frantically running around Bethlehem in the dark of night. Mary, heavily pregnant, tired, in or very close to labour. Joseph, a man with the world on his shoulders, tasked with ensuring this one moment in history goes according to plan, trying desperately to find something resembling anything close to being worthy of the birth of our Lord. They are turned away at every place they visit.

No room, sorry”

“Are you crazy? It’s census, of course there’s no room”, “we’re all booked out sorry.”

Sound familiar?

Yeah I think I might have some space, but to be honest, I don’t think you’ll like it. It’s dirty, there’s animals and their droppings everywhere, it smells. It’s not ready to cater for the birth of a baby, no one has ever slept in it apart from animals. I don’t really give it that much attention because it just gets dirty all the time.”

Exhausted, and with barely the energy to think of an alternative, Joseph musters a response, and hurriedly rushes the Virgin Mary to her birthing suite.

When you are turned away at the gates of our church, count yourself lucky to be in the company of our Lord. Turned away everywhere they went, our Lord chose humility, He chose a stable. Hardly fitting for a king, yet it was God’s wish. And it still is. God wishes to come into our hearts that are undeserving.

Like the stable, they are dirty, smelly and haven’t been cleaned in a long time. We cover them with hay and straw but the filth lays beneath. We hide them to everyone and don’t really think anyone should see them or know about them. We are so concerned that someone will come in and expose everything. We are despaired that the stable is too dirty for our Lord.
Yet, it is precisely here, that the Lord wishes to enter. He wishes to enter it with his Mother Mary. He wishes to bring the hope and joy of the Shepherds, who for hundreds of years had waited with hope for the coming of their Saviour. He wishes to bring the gifts of the Wise Men, royalty, holiness and His glorious suffering. He wishes to place the star of Bethlehem right over you, glorifying Himself through this miserable stable.

So rejoice, the true meaning of Christmas isn’t the Christmas Eve Liturgy, or the gifts or the food or the laughter. It’s that today Christ “became man so that man might become God.” When life doesn’t go according to plan, when you have no where to rest, when you’re worried that your stable is too far gone, too dirty for Christ to make a home in, remember;

Today He has accepted to come into YOUR stable. Today, Christ brings his Holy Family to make a home in you specifically. To sweep up the filth, to clean the manger, to make room for Joy, Peace and Wisdom. Today Christ began the journey to Golgotha to save you. Today, Christ is Born.

Visited by Glory this Christmas

Visited by Glory this Christmas

Transcribed sermon by Andrew Selim


Passage Luke 1:61-80

Throughout the Bible, there are a number of praises (doxologies) to God. Doxology comes from two Greek words; ‘Doxa’ meaning glory, and ‘ology’ meaning saying or word. A doxology is an explanation of praise or glory; a short hymn of praise to the Lord.

Within the church, there are different types of melodies for different types of doxologies. The Trinitarian doxology, for example, is sung every hour of the book of Prayers (the Agpia). There are also seasonal doxologies sung at a particular feast date. Finally, there are doxologies that commemorate specific saints.

There is a theme of doxology throughout the Old Testament and the New Testament, that the church reflects throughout the year. One of the most famous doxologies of the Old Testament is after Moses stretched his hand over the sea, and the sea returns to its original depth. Moses sang a doxology; I will sing to the Lord for He has triumphed gloriously (Exodus 15). Then, Miriam responds with another doxology; Sing to the Lord for He has triumphed gloriously (Exodus 15:20-21).

In the New Testament, we read the doxology of the Virgin Mary herself; my soul magnifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Saviour! (Luke 1:46-56).

Finally, on the 4th Sunday of Kiahk, the final Sunday before the Nativity, the church reads the doxology of St Zacharias. He proclaims this after the birth of his son, John.

Now his father Zacharias was filled with the Holy Spirit, and prophesied, saying: “Blessed is the Lord God of Israel, For He has visited and redeemed His people, And has raised up a horn of salvation for us.”

He continues on, and you will notice that after the birth of his own son, the doxology is not about John the Baptist, but the coming Messiah.

After nine months of silence, instead of proclaiming the joy of his own son, he proclaims God and the Messiah. John is only mentioned in a few verses toward the end. For centuries, the Jews had languished over the visitation from God.

For Zacharias, he contemplates saying, that God, “has visited and redeemed His people.” In the Greek translation, it is to look into a situation in order to help; to help someone who is suffering and has been forgotten or overlooked. In the Bible, we see visitations from God to people who were suffering and forgotten.

The Lord visits His people in their time of need, when they feel like they have been forgotten by all else. As we approach Christmas, the Lord visits you and I, when He was incarnated in the flesh. David the prophet spoke of this visitation saying, “what is man that You are mindful of him, And the son of man that You visit him?(Psalm 8:4).

Has God visited you yet? Are we praying like Jeremiah saying, “Remember me and visit me!(Jeremiah 15:15). Has God visited not just our bodies, but our hearts and make it His temple and His home? Has He found His way into the innermost parts of your being; your thoughts, your intentions? We don’t want just a transient visitor, but a permanent resident.

The Lord always takes care of the house that He visits and lives in, as He strengthens, glorifies and beautifies it. The Lord visits and, “raises a horn of salvation.”

When we read the scripture in relation to a horn, it is the bony structured that protrudes from an animal’s head but in the Old Testament there were various purposes to a horn. They were uses as vessels to carry oil and as trumpets. David also writes, “But my horn You have exalted like a wild ox; I have been anointed with fresh oil” (Psalm 92:10). Horns are not just for oil or trumpets, they are also symbols of power. The horn of a king is his saving strength.

In the Old Testament tabernacle there were four horns on the altar of burnt offering which was carried to the Temple. The horns were sprinkled with blood during the ceremonies to make atonement for sin, and to purify the people from their sin.

When Zacharias says, “You have raised a horn of salvation,” he means that God has raised the power of salvation. The horns on the altar of burnt offering was not just for atonement, but also a place of refuge. As it is written, “Now Adonijah was afraid of Solomon; so he arose, and went and took hold of the horns of the altar” (1 Kings 1:50). Adonijah clinged to the horns of the altar where he knew he would be safe. No one in the Old Testament would dare to kill on the altar of offering.

Christ is the horn of salvation that we cling to when we are in trouble and in need of refuge. King David also writes, “The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer; My God, my strength, in whom I will trust; My shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold” (Psalm 18:2). Now, during uncertainty, we have the horn of salvation that we run to and seek refuge in.

Zacharias concludes, “Through the tender mercy of our God, With which the Dayspring from on high has visited us; To give light to those who sit in darkness and the shadow of death.” (Luke 1:78-79). The Messiah as the dayspring, or dawn; the rising sun. The sun/light is one of the most important titles of Christ, this is reflected in the Psalm that is linked to the Gospel; “Restore us, O God; Cause Your face to shine” (Psalm 80:3).

The last words of King David when he spoke of Christ the Messiah were, “And he shall be like the light of the morning when the sun rises, A morning without clouds” (2 Samuel 23:4). This is exactly like what Zacharias said when he proclaimed that Christ would be the light of the morning.

In the twelve healings by prophets of the Old Testament, no one was given sight, only Christ did this. They raised the dead, they healed the lepers, but they did not give sight to the blind, for this was the mission of the Messiah, to give sight to those living in the darkness of sin. As it was prophesied, Then the eyes of the blind shall be opened (Isaiah 35:5). Of all the healing miracles of Christ, the majority were given sight to the blind, for Christ was the Dayspring, and the giver of light.

Christ is the light to our darkness. When John the Baptist sent his disciples to ask if Christ was the Messiah they were waiting for, Christ responded, “Go and tell John the things you have seen and heard: that the blind see” (Luke 7:22).

We can forgive a child that is afraid of the dark, the real tragedy is when men are afraid of the light. Light came into the world, but was shunned by men, for they loved the dark. Is there darkness in my life; of fear, of stress, of anxiety, of sin? There is so much darkness, from within and without, the Lord says that He will light the lamps of our darkness.

Let us be enlightened, and become not what we are but what we once were. When Christ is our Dayspring, we no longer need the sun or moon, for He will be the everlasting light and glory.

Prayer: Sharper than any Two Edged Sword

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Prayer

Dear Lord,

Your Word is a lamp to my feet and light to my path. Whenever I feel lost or afraid, help me to run to Your Word. May Your Word dwell in my heart and my mind always. Do not let me to become complacent to Your Word. Rather, let it be a two-edged sword that grants me confidence in You and sets my path straight when I have strayed.

Thank You for giving me the love letter that is the Bible. It is my safe haven in times of trial and tribulation and my eternal source of joy and comfort. I know that whenever I read Your Word, I am hearing Your voice speaking directly to me. Help me to yearn for the time I get to hear Your Word.

Help me to know that I am fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image so that I may run to Your precious Word all the days of my life. May Your praise always be upon my lips. Forever and always Yours. Amen.

Challenge: Sharper than any Two Edged Sword

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Challenge

For this month, set two alarms; one earlier than you usually wake up and one in the evening. In the morning make time to read the Bible before you start your day, and at night make time for contemplation/quiet time. Or vice versa.

Message a friend once completed so that you are held accountable and avoid the temptation of sleeping in or sleeping earlier!

Focus Quote: Sharper than Any Two Edged Sword

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Focus Quote

If there is anyone who, while evils are increasing and vices are overflowing, can turn from the things that are in flux and passing away and fallen and can hear the word of God and the heavenly precepts, this person is building an ark of salvation within his own heart and is dedicating a library, so to speak, of the divine word within himself. He is erecting faith, love and hope as its length, breadth and height. He stretches out faith in the Trinity to the length of life and immortality. He establishes the breadth of love with the compassion of gentleness and kindness. He raises the height of hope to heavenly and exalted places. For while he walks on the earth, he has his ‘citizenship in heaven.’

Origen

Readings: Sharper than any Two Edged Sword

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New Testament Passage

Let us therefore be diligent to enter that rest, lest anyone fall according to the same example of disobedience. For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account. – Hebrews 4:11-13

Discussion Questions

  1. St Paul describes the Word of God as a two-edged sword. What is the significance of a two-edged sword and how can we allow it to guide our lives?
  2. The Word of God discerns intention from appearances. How can we use the Bible to ensure that our intentions remain pure despite what our worldly reputation may be?
  3. The more we read the Bible, the more it cleanses us, but it is also important to study and understand what we read. What are some practical ways we can balance quality and quantity of Bible reading?

Old Testament Passage

The voice of one crying in the wilderness:
“Prepare the way of the Lord;
Make straight]in the desert
A highway for our God.
Every valley shall be exalted
And every mountain and hill brought low;
The crooked places shall be made straight
And the rough places smooth;
The glory of the Lord shall be revealed,
And all flesh shall see it together;
For the mouth of the Lord has spoken.”
The voice said, “Cry out!”
And he said, “What shall I cry?”
“All flesh is grass,
And all its loveliness is like the flower of the field.
The grass withers, the flower fades,
Because the breath of the Lord blows upon it;
Surely the people are grass.
The grass withers, the flower fades,
But the word of our God stands forever.” – Isaiah 40:3-8

Discussion Questions

  1. The words of Isaiah reveal great faith and zeal for our Lord. How can we attain such virtues so that we too, become the voice of one crying in the wilderness?
  2. The Bible is God’s love letter to each one of us. Reflect on a time where you have sought refuge in the Bible and felt the Word of God speaking directly to you. While your problems may not have gone away immediately, there is comfort in knowing that God is in control. What are some passages that we can look to in future to remind us of His divine providence?