The Beautiful Dove

Personally, I’m not sure I’d like being called a dove…I guess beautiful dove does make it a little better. So why do we call St Mary the beautiful dove. Surely it has to mean something.

Referring to St Mary as the beautiful dove is not common in other Christian denominations but it is very common in the Coptic church. Many of our hymns that speak about St Mary mention her as being the beautiful dove. So why do the Copts use this term more than other Christian denominations. What does this term “beautiful dove” refer to?

Across history and cultures, the dove is recognised as an image of peace and hope. Christ tells His followers to be as “wise as serpents, and harmless as doves” – Matthew 10:16. There is something about seeing an image of a dove that makes you feel like everything will be ok. Which brings us to the reason why St Mary, the beautiful dove, is so often used in the Coptic Church. The Copts for many years have been under persecution, and while martyrdom is seen as an honour, it is easy to understand that the desire for peace is in the hearts of the Copts. It is in those same Coptic hearts that a huge love for St Mary, the mother of the King of Peace, resides. St Mary feels the heartbreak of her persecuted children and takes these broken hearted prayers to the Lord who cannot refuse His mother. St Mary is the beautiful dove that brings prayers of peace for her children to the throne of the Lord.

Perhaps more fittingly, the term refers to the dove that Noah released from the ark. The dove flew out of the ark and came back with a branch to let Noah know that the flood waters had receded. Likewise St Mary takes the prayers from the ark of the Church and brings them to the Lord who answers her prayers with a message that the floods of the world will not triumph over the Church. It is an amazing thought, that those of us who are in the Church, surrounded by the floods of the world, not only have a messenger to take our requests to God, but also to send us peaceful comfort from God. A hope of something better.

It is here the beautiful dove takes on another, more modern meaning. In a time where the world is facing new and difficult challenges, a world where man and woman may mean different things to different people. Where wars are becoming more accepted. Where standing up for what is right or wrong is classified as bigotry or outdated thinking, we now more than ever need to cling on to a hope that transcends our world. A hope that good can still overcome evil. A hope that the heavenly is still valued among the earthly. A hope that is seen in the beautiful dove, the bearer of the source of peace and hope. St Mary the beautiful dove. It is very important to note though, that although we are safe in the Ark, the embrace of the Church, we are to pray for the receding of the harmful waters in the world; not just for the salvation of the Church, but of the whole world, even those that may bring the most harm to us.

The last thing I wanted to speak about is the term beauty. I wonder if St Mary in this modern day would be considered beautiful by our society? Would she be fully dressed in designer? Would she pay thousands on her image? I can confidently say no, because even in her time she dressed simply, as a temple servant, and was of such a selfless nature that she spent more of her time worrying about others than herself. Of course there is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, but if that is our only definition of beauty, then we only need to look at St Mary. What made her beautiful was not just her appearance but how she made others feel around her. She carried herself as a faithful servant of God who always put others above herself. This humility is what we as a Church call beauty! This love St Mary can’t help but show for everyone is the truest kind of beauty.

Beauty for our hearts, peace for our spirits, hope for our minds, St Mary truly is the beautiful dove.

The Missing Prayer (Part THREE of THREE)

The Missing Prayer (Pt 3)

By: George Iskander

+ Spiritual sacrifice (Sacrificial worship)

– Hebrews 13:15 “Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise…”

– In the liturgy we sing a response, “Through the pleadings…the gift of peace, the sacrifice of praise.”

 This is a very interesting concept; praise is considered to be a sacrifice that we offer to our Maker.

St. Cyril of Jerusalem says,

Take courage, toil and strive zealously, for nothing will be lost. Every prayer you make, every Psalm you sing, is recorded; every alm, every fast is recorded 

+ Keeps us PURE!

Imagine you are home alone, bored and lustful temptation enters your heart.  One of the most powerful ways to obliterate the temptation, if running away isn’t an option, is to kneel and praise the Lord.

St. John Saba said:

The passion of adultery is extinguished by the songs of the Psalms, and the beauty of the tunes. By the pouring of the heart before God…

+ Official introduction to serve the Church sacraments

– Prepare us

– Cleanse us

– Educate us

Helps us to raise our minds out of the plaguing thoughts of the world and redirects it to God and Heaven

It also actually teaches us about theology, God’s attributes.

+ Fellowship between the believers (corporate prayer)

With prayer it is very important to have the private secret prayer in your room with the door closed, but it is equally as important to have communal prayer which establishes fellowship between your brothers and sisters in Christ. Praise, such as the Holy Psalmody achieves this.

+ Take the Psalms as our example

David the Psalmist was big on praise, his psalms are all coloured by singing God praises.

O Lord, our Lord, How excellent is Your name in all the earth, Who have set Your glory above the heavens! Ps 8:1

Praise the LORD! For it is good to sing praises to our God; For it is pleasant, and praise is beautiful. Ps 147:1

How can we include praise in our prayers?

A few types of praise:

Personal
Praise of God centred wholly upon God and His eternal characteristics.
For example: His majesty, glory, power, beauty, lavish love, mercy, grace…

This is open to your own personal contemplation

Biblical
Psalms
Those who neglect the prayers of the Psalms with mediation, lose the chance of prayer according to God’s will –  Father Bishoy Kamel.

– David’s Praise to God (1 Chronicles 29:10-13)

– Exodus Ch 15 –  Israelites praise God for dividing the red sea and giving them freedom from the Egyptians

Physical

Prostrations before the lord, C.S Lewis comments in his book: The Screwtape Letters, that “Whatever their bodies do affects their souls” speaking about how if we kneel before the Lord with outstretched arms then our soul will be in the ideal state for prayer.

Signing

The Holy Psalmody & Hymns.

The month of Kiahk, in our Church this month is a very powerful month of revival of our spirits as we raise our hearts in beautiful, selfless praise before our Lord. Weekly Tasbeha is offered at church.

Singing psalms is a medicine for healing the soul (St. Athanasius)

May God teach us to unlock the secret of praise in our prayer life and reap the rewards as it transforms us and gives us a taste of the joy of heaven.

Glory be to God forever, Amen.

The Missing Prayer (Part TWO of THREE)


The Missing Prayer

By George Iskander

Why is praise so important?

By God’s grace, after reading this, we can all endeavor to make praise a part of our daily prayer.

 + Praise in the most selfless form of prayer

It has nothing to do with asking, or taking, it’s all about giving and offering. Classed by many of the church fathers as the highest level of prayer.

  1. A. Russel in his book, The Power of Praise, says:

Praise is the form of prayer which recognizes most immediately that God is God. It lauds God for his own sake and gives him glory, quite beyond what he does, but simply because HE IS. It shares in the blessed happiness of the pure of heart who love God in faith before seeing him in glory. By praise, the Spirit is joined to our spirits to bear witness that we are children of God, testifying to the only Son in whom we are adopted and by whom we glorify the Father. Praise embraces the other forms of prayer and carries them toward him who is its source and goal: the “one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist (1 Cor 8:6)

 + Praise is a source of blessing, reward and comfort

God loves His creation to praise Him, to acknowledge Him, to appreciate Him…consider this, if you are not a parent, try and picture yourself as one; nothing would make you happier and feel more loved than hearing your child telling you, you are the best dad/mum in in world, and knowing they see you as the strongest person in the world, and that they feel safe that you’re in control of their lives.

Try see the rewards and blessings that come with attending the Holy Psalmody (Tasbeha), which is a strong source of praise.

Praise allows you to have God’s greatest resound in your heart and mind. If you find yourself in a scary, stressful situation, one thing that will calm you down and comfort you is praise.

One time, a friend and I found ourselves caught in a rip and we were 100s of metres from the shoreline but managed to stay together, we tried to swim back, but our efforts were futile and exhausted us. Eventually being so far out and realizing the waters depth, we began to think of the concept of sharks and other sea creatures which made us increasingly more nervous. After exhausting all physical and practical effort, my friend and I turned to God and decided to start praying. We tried thanking God for our situation but it was a bit tough and really hard to mean it due to our rising fears, so we didn’t get much comfort from that. Finally some verses of the Holy psalmody came to me where we sing “Praise the lord the O Seas and Rivers” “Bless the Lord all the winds” “Bless the Lord all things that move in the waters” We lined our boards together and started praising God saying that He was the powerful creator of the universe and everything is under His control, even the weird shadows we saw moving below us. Before we knew it we were both calm and found ourselves back at shore.

 + Praise helps you truly love God and teaches humility

What helps us to love our parents, spouses or friends? Usually when we think of their kindness, selflessness or other great qualities, it reminds us of why we love them

If we keep reminding ourselves of God’s great characteristics as the powerful architect of the universe that sent His Son to save us, it makes us love Him more, and in turn grants us humility by realizing how small we are in comparison.

 + It is the language of heaven

What is heaven but continual praising of God – in fact angels exist in heaven for this very purpose. If we do not enjoy the praise of God on earth, how can we enjoy it in heaven? There is a pure joy that comes with true praise, which gives us a taste of heaven on earth.

St Basil the great says:

The work of praising attracts the service of the Angels because this is a function of their existence. Thus they come closer to those who imitate in their ways.

St. Basil also goes on to say that liturgical music in particular essential because the liturgy is an imitation of heavenly glory and praise.

Next week, we’ll explore praise in a different light!

The Missing Prayer (Part ONE of THREE)


The Missing Prayer

By George Iskander

What component of prayer would you say you lacks most in your prayer life?

What surrounds us in all church services, that perhaps doesn’t make its way to the quiet prayer corner of our rooms?

What’s the common theme that resonates through the psalms?

Lets start by identifying the essential building blocks of a structured personal prayer. If we could summarize prayer into 5 components, what would they be? This is not an exhaustive list but rather 5 umbrella categories. Before you read ahead, try and think of what your personal prayers are comprised of.

  1. Thanksgiving
    We are taught from a young age to always give thanks. If you were to ask a child to pray, you will notice that this is how many start their prayers. Thanking God for health, for food, shelter, loved ones, the opportunity to know Him and stand before Him…etc. Thanksgiving is usually what defines the beginning of our prayer and is also illustrated as such in liturgical services and the Agpeya prayer book.
  1. Supplication
    Naturally what follows is our human nature to ask and entreat the Lord the requests of our heart. God please help me in this exam, help me to get this job, help me find a partner…
  1. Repentance
    Repentance is a very important element that we should include daily in our prayer life and is included in the Lord’s prayer; “Our Father…” Asking God to forgive our trespasses is an essential part of a Christian’s daily routine.
  1. Intercession
    Asking for the prayers of the saints, or praying for each other. This is commonly how we are taught to conclude our prayers.

These 4 categories seem to cover it all. Often there is one aspect of prayer that is missing, kind of like the top piece of toast, it’s neglected, a lot of people don’t eat it, but in fact it’s what holds the bread together.

The 5th component is:

  1. Praise
    What is praise? Accurately defined:
    Praise: an expression of approval or admiration, of gratitude and devotion for blessings received.
    Praise of God: Acknowledging of His perfections, works and benefits.
    (M. F. Unger 1988, The New Unger’s Bible Dictionary)

Why is praise so important?

By God’s grace, after reading this, we can all endeavour to make praise a part of our daily prayer.

Tune in for part TWO next week!